USD 150 · 30 min
Not an Advice
The Naming Service · For when you can see it, but cannot name it yet.
This is for you if
You are smart. You have thought about this more than most people around you even could. You are not missing information. You are not confused in the ordinary sense.
But something is there — a feeling, a pattern, a ceiling you keep hitting. You know it is not just the practical things in front of you. When you try to explain it to people, they either do not follow or they tell you you are overthinking. You are not overthinking. You are just thinking in a room where no one else can see what you see.
You do not need advice. You need someone to look at your situation from outside it — and say what they actually see.
Who I am
—I read people and conversations slowly, without rushing to a conclusion.
—I map out what someone is circling — the parts they almost said.
—I have my own edges and will be honest about what I see. Your decisions stay yours.
—Not in your circle. No loyalty to anyone in your story.
—What you share stays here. Not a policy — just how I am.
Do not book if
—You do not recognise yourself above — I will know when the conversation starts
—You need a correct answer or someone to decide for you
—You are looking for any form of relationship beyond this boundary
—You are more interested in my privacy than your own
—You expect everything to be magically resolved in 30 minutes
—You are in a crisis that requires immediate professional help — I am not the right person for that moment
Practical arrangements
—After purchase, you will receive a booking link. Choose a time that works and fill in a short intake form.
—To reschedule, give at least 12 hours notice. Late cancellations are not refundable.
—Over 15 minutes late with no notice = forfeited session. Not refundable.
—I reply within 3 days. I am not on call.
—Calls are recorded for my personal reference only. Not shared with anyone.
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不是建議
The Naming Service · 當你看得見,但還說不出是什麼的時候。
這是為你而設,如果
你很聰明。你對這件事的思考已經比你身邊大多數人還要深。你不是缺少資訊,你不是普通意義上的困惑。
但就是有些東西在那裡——一種感覺、一種模式、一道無形的天花板。你知道,這不僅僅是眼前那些實際的事情。當你試圖向別人解釋,他們要麼跟不上,要麼說你想太多。你沒有想太多。你只是在一個不同維度的思考空間,而沒有人能看見你看見的東西。
你不需要建議。你需要一個在你處境之外的人——說出他們真正看到的。
我是誰
—我仔細閱人,深入理解,但不急著下結論。
—我會梳理出對方在圍繞著什麼打轉,接住那些幾乎說出口但沒說的部分。
—我有自己的稜角,我會誠實地說我看到什麼。你的決定,始終屬於你自己。
—不在你的圈子裡。對你故事裡的任何人都沒有立場。
—你分享的一切,只會留在這裡。不是規定—只是我這個人的方式。
請勿預約,如果
—你在以上描述中認不出自己——對話開始時,我就會知道
—你需要一個直接的標準答案,或是別人替你做決定
—你需要存好幾個星期的錢才能負擔得起——我的時間恕不退還
—你和公園裡的伯伯、教會裡的父親,或晚餐時的兄弟姊妹聊天,也會同樣開心
—你在尋找超越此界線以外的任何形式關係
—你對我的私隱比對你自己更感興趣
—你正處於需要立即專業協助的危機狀況——在那一刻,我不是合適的人選
實際安排
—付款後你會收到預約連結。選一個合適的時間,填一份簡短的問卷。
—改時間請至少提前 12 小時通知。臨時取消不退款。
—遲到超過 15 分鐘而沒有通知,視為放棄該次通話。不退款。
—我會在 3 天內回覆訊息。我不是隨傳隨到的。
—通話會錄音,僅供我個人參考。錄音不會分享給任何人。
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